How do we change? Can pretending to be someone else help? The focus of the last few months of my daily walks and meditation has been how do we change, and more importantly how do we help others change. Lasting change and habit-breaking is possibly the most important thing we as a human being can do to improve our lives and the lives around us. I have coined the term micro-decisions to define the small decisions that makeup who we are. If you are good at these decisions, you probably have a good life. If you are not good at these decisions, you probably struggle. I recently received a book, “The Alter Ego Effect,” by Todd Herman in the mail from one of my Mentors. In the book, Todd talks about how people throughout history have used alternate personas to achieve great things. Everyone from Beyonce to Bo Jackson, as...
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